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Q: im female and i have knew "tom" for a year now and he goes to the same school as me and everything and hes one of my best mates and before summer break his mate asked me if i'd go out with "tom" but i dint say anything because every1 kept changing the subject.this happened twice and one of my other best friends did the same but i dont know if they were jokin but i really like him i cant stop thinkin bout him and id want to go out with him but then he went out with this girl that i never knew he even talked to and she dumped him for his friend a week later.the hard part is that no one knows i like him in that way at all n sry its so long but i dont know what to do!!
When Tom's friends started asking if you would go out with him, it may have hit you like a bombshell to know that he had an interest in you. Maybe at that time it was such a shock that you didn't know how to respond to Tom's friends trying to set both of you up.

The next time you are around Tom's friends, say something about the girl who left him for his friend just lost a good guy. If you are questioned about your statement, just tell the person asking that you think Tom would be a great guy to be in a relationship with. If it is brought up about you having a chance to be with him before, tell the person that at the time, you thought they were joking. You didn't see any signs from him to know that they were being sincere. Also let them know that since that time, you have really started to notice Tom. Before you only thought of him as a friend, but since the "seed" of a relationship with Tom has been planted in your mind, you want to give it a try. I hope this helps you in a very positive way.

Ms Ask Me

thankyou so much i would have never thought of this i will defonatley give this a try
take care
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