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Q: "its not your actions that make me feel the way i feel, its just being around you. and you dont make me feel bad otherwise i wouldnt wan to be with you. i care for you and you make me feel great its just that it hasnt built up to incredible yet"

How do you interput that? I don't understand what my boyfriend means when he said that.
umm i'm a little confused.. but i think i "kind of" get it.. i think..

"it's not your actions that make me feel the way i feel, it's just being around you" - ok so, he's saying that the way he feels about you is not because of anything that you've done, it's because of the feeling he gets when he's with you

"and you dont make me feel bad, otherwise wouldnt want to be with you" - so he's saying that you dont make him feel bad, which is the reason why he's still with you

"i care for you and you make me feel great its just that it hasnt built up to incredible yet" - i think he's trying to tell you that you make him feel great, but not good enough, and he wants to feeling to be better? however that's possible

this is what happens when people try to sound smart.. they just end up confusing everyone, lol. i hope you understand it better now because i'm still pretty confused

you made it 1000% more clear.

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