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im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
just straight up tell him that it's getting a little bit too far or going a little too fast (which ever fits). when a guy hears this, you can almost expect a reaction, so you have to be prepared for it. he might flip out, he might cry...who knows? but ne ways, you need to tell him what you feel ASAP! the longer you hold of, the harder it's gunna be on the both of you.


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thanks, last night i told him i needed a break, and after a long conversation... we both cried. i just need to get away, it wasnt anything towards him, im just stressed out. but now he feels as if i dont like him anymore... and thats not the case at all. :(




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