Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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Last Update: October 18, 2005
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
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Tell him the same thing you just sed when you were asking what to tell him! Explain to him that you still want to be friends with him, and maybe even really good/close friends, but you are just not ready for the kind of relationship that he wants. Tell him that you aren't exactly sure of what you want at this time in your life, so you just want some time for yourself to think about everything. If you still want to hang out with him every now and then, make sure he knows that too..so he DOESN'T think that you totally want him out of your life. However, if he really likes you a lot it might be hard for him to just be your friend. You have to be careful with the words that you use and how you say this to him tho, b/c he might take it the wrong way and get really upset.
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thanks, i told him i needed a break lastnight.. it was hard... but... i think it was for the better.
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