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Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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14/f...Sometimes i feel as if i were cursed... (lol), Well my life just sucks for me sometimes... HEres the dillio (haha) I live with my dad and four other brothers... WHICH sucks because i dont have any privacy what SO EVER!! my mom left us when i was two so i never new her, but i do give my dad credit on growing us up.. But my brothes suck i mean all they do is play sports and talk about girls, i cant even have a normal conversation with any of them without them doing stupid boy crap (farting,joking,burping) i mean eww i hate living with BOYS hah... My dad i love him too death he just doesnt understand me at all, i mean i cant talk to him about personal or girly stuff because he just doesnt know it, ive tried and he has failed... and I cant even talk about boys with any of them because they dont even understand themselves so how the hell are they gonna understand another boy... But like i just get aggervated because all my dad does is go too their damn sports game and their in every sports game fucking possible so i never get too hang out with my dad... all he does is work,sleep,cook,and go too their shitty sports games... I try too make his life easier because i know its hard being a single parent and raising 5 kids... like i clean the house,dishes,vacumm,sweep,all those other chores but everything gets ruined eventually and im tired of doing it all over again... My brothers treat me like shit and i get no respect for anything..... I just feel so unwanted... and i feel scared too talk to my dad about everything because its just weird spilling out all your feelings too a guy when its about them... HMMM ANY ADVICE ON ANY OF THIS???? (link)
I think that if you try to tell your dad how you feel he will understand, or atleast try to! I know what it's like to have guys around. I only have one brother, but i hate trying to talk to my mom when her b/f is around. He always jokes around and never takes me seriously when i try to talk about something. But anyways, this isn't about my problem, this is yours..lol. Do you have a female cousin, or a close aunt that you could talk to? Or your grandmother. You could always talk to them about your "girl" issues or problems. If you need someone to talk to about guys, you could always talk to your friends! Does your dad go out on dates, or is he still interested in finding a g/f? If he is, maybe you could try to help him find one somehow, so then you'll have another girl in the house! Or even just a close "female" neighbor, that you know well enough to talk to about your life. There are a lot of things you could do. If you are absolutely unsure of what to do, you could talk to a counsellor or something like that, to ask them what you should do, b/c they actually know what they are talking about, i don't lol..i'm just trying to suggest some things to you. you also might want to just try and talk to your brothers. well..maybe only one at a time. figure out when your dad works, and when your brother's games are, and just try to schedule some time for just you and your dad to hang out, and talk! i'm sure if you keep talking to him about things, he will get better at understanding you, and girls! Good Luck!


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