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Q: um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me.
I think you aren't redy for sex yet, you still want to find the right person to have it with. you wouldn't like a 1 night stand, but a long term relationship. if your friends are judging you it is only because you are different and you aren't rushing. you have plenty of time top have sex you are only 16 you could have you 1st experience at 24 but it wouldn't matter. hope i helped.

true, im not really looking for a 1 nighter. i want some1 i can wake up next too. thank you for putting in terms that i can easily comphrehend. thanx a million! :)

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