Im a varsity cheerleader in the 10th grade (class of '08) and i love tho listen to music and txt on the cell and talk talk talk 2 all of my friends on aim! i go to high school with all my friends: deanna, tyler, katie, trisha, & celsey! i weigh 117 lbs (tring to lose 20) and im 5 foot 1. and my favorite colors are sea foam green and bright pink.... well thats all im gonna tell yew cuz thats all yew need to kno!
E-mail: almondjoyx31129@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: maryland
Age: 14
AIM: almondjoyx31129
Member Since: August 18, 2005
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Last Update: January 4, 2006
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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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if they say that they love them and then the person they love hurts them they wouldnt break up with them but they forgive them and work it out , so yes & no teens can love but it really depends on the person, but sometime 1 person really loves another but ther other doesnt love them back and that really hurts, i know, but it happens, im 14/f and i know most people think im imature and i dont know what im talking about but i just wish some1 would listen to me, but anyway.... i wrote this about 3 months ago hope it says something to you!........
love is a word with a lot of responsibility. if you don't use it properly, it leads to broken hearts, lying, misunderstanment, & chaos. if all this is avoided, then we'd all be happier, but that's not the way the earth spins. we always will have broken hearts, lying, misunderstandment, & chaos. there's NO way around it. so why don't we live in the moment and do just what are minds tell us? we could, but we wouldn't be truthful with ourselfs. we need to listen to our hearts and what we feel is right. if you feel it's right to live in the moment go right ahead, just remember this, that when you do, other's hearts & minds are in your hands
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Yeah, I agree that it does depend on the person. But for teens, it does seem a bit premature to say that they "love" someone. Love does hold a lot of responsibility. A responsiblity that I think only mature adults can handle, not people in their early adolesence. But, who knows? I could be wrong.
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