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Q: There's this guy I really want to get to know. He's new to out school, he's cute, he's shy, and sits alone at lunch. He barely ever talks.

The bad thing is, that I'm shy, too. I'd love to get to know him, but my shyness is holding me back. How can I get over this?
if you want to get to know this guy as much as you say you do, then i know you'll be able to approach him no matter how shy you are. in 7th grade, i was in a new class that didnt have anyone that i knew. and i'm a pretty shy person when i'm in a place where i dont know anyone. there was this girl though, and i could just tell that she felt as shy and isolated as me, so i decided to start talking to her, and we've been good friends ever since. so if this guy is really shy, then there will only be a small chance that he'll try talking to you or anyone else. you have to be the bigger man and try talking to him first. that's the only way for you to get to know him. think about it, is it really that hard to go up to a person and say hi? just pretend that he's someone that you've known for a long time, and you'll be more comfortable around him. and inside he'll be so glad that you've decided to talk to him, since he's new and he doesnt know anyone yet.

hope i helped :)

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