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i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
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Hey,
I know its hard to be with someone you dont like. I have been in that situation before. Once I get to know I guy I recognize all of his flaws and i get over him way too quickly.
I agree with you that it would be a bad idea to break up with him right now. If you can try and wait a week or two (at least) to break it off so he wont have any reason to think you had been using him. You dont need to wait a whole month. Thats like hell staying with a guy you dont like, especially for a long period of time.
If you can't wait that long and you absolutly have to get rid of this guy by all means go ahead. If he says anything about you using him just straight out tell him that that isnt the case. Explain to him that you just dont have feelings for him like that any more and you want to be friends.
Before you decide what you're going to do, consider this, if you take my advice and wait for two weeks, he could get more attatched to you and end up giving you more gifts, so the best thing to do would be to just break it off right now.

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(Rating: 5) thx!!! you really helped!!!
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