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I'm the same person who asked how i could persuade my parents to let me keep my brother's dog while he is forced to live in hawaii(military orders). My brother and I decided to talk to our parents(for the third time) and my dad was cool with it but my mom wasn't. Everything got out of control and my mom and my grandmother got into this violent argument and my mom was close to killing my grandmother. My mom saids that my brother deserves the pain of his problems just because my brother is taking a while to pay her back cuz he doesn't have much money rite now. To her money comes before family so itz her #1 priority. So my mom threatened to pack up and leave home forever if the dog moves in. I'm so upset and stressed out. what should I do?
Yes, I remember you! I was the second one to answer your other question :)
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=358255
I'm very glad your father is fine with keeping the dog!
As for your mother...hmm. Of course I suggest you try and talk to her again. Talk to her about every little thing buzzing in your head right now. And teach her that money is not everything! Now could be a good time to teach her what's wrong and how to make it right. Sometimes adults have an opinion and it's hard for them to realize it's not moral unless someone else helps them.
If your mother refuses to listen and insists on having no dog or she'll move out, let me ask you one thing. Do you love this woman? Because as much as you might love her, you might want to rethink about how much SHE loves YOU. I'm sure almost killing your grandmother was an exaggeration, but even if it was, that's HORRIBLE! That's quite selfish that she has a grudge over your brother just because of money! I mean, come on! Your brother's going away for the military! It's not like he's going off to have a vacation in paris.
So she THREATENED to leave FOREVER if a cute doggy came into your home? You know what I think? I think she's bluffing. Trying to make sure the dog won't ever take a step in the house. I say go for it and keep the dog. She's either just bluffing or if she really is willing to leave forever just because of this, it's best to let her go.
Don't stress out and don't get upset. I know, sounds impossible, but keep your cool. I promise you, you are doing nothing wrong so don't feel bad. Please tell me what happens and feel free to ask again if you ever need more advice. Good luck!
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(Rating: 5) thank you
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