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I have a friend who says I am her "best friend". Well, lately she hasn't been inviting me places. Like, she is always with other people. I have caught on that everytime she invites me out her other friends are busy. Do you think I am her second choice or maybe I am just overreacting? I have talked to her about it but she makes excuses.
You MAY be overreacting. Well, why didn't YOU call her and ask her if she wanted to hang out? You said she's been hanging out with HER OTHER friends. That's understandable. Once people get new friends they like to hang out with them since they're "new" and something "different".
Maybe her other friends have been calling her and actually asking her to go out. Maybe if you actually planned things with her you'd actually be going out too.
Maybe you DO try to plan things with your bestfriend, so forgive me if this answer isn't accurate, but I'm just giving you advice from what little information you gave me.
The best thing to do is to talk to her. Tell her you don't care if the truth hurts you, but you just want to know the truth. If she makes an effort to include you in her hang outs more you'll know she's trying. If she doesn't really do anything you'll know she's not trying too hard. If that's the case just dump her. You don't need friends that treat you horribly.
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(Rating: 5) Thanks. & yes, I have made plans with her but she has to check & see if this guys wants to go out or she just calls at the last minute to cancel. I don't care anymore. I probably am overreacting. Thanks for the advice tho
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