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Q: I think I love my best friend, but I still kind of like this other guy. I have no idea if I love him as a close friend or more than just a friend. He has a girlfriend, but I just have no idea on how to tell him how I feel about him without becoming all nervous around him. How do I tell him, without getting butterflies in my stomack?
Confused Teen
13, female
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hey, i'm like going through the exact same thing! ha. well, my guy does have a grilfriend too and it is very discouraging, i know. and i kind of like this other guy, but i really really liek my best friend! keep an open mind. dont tell you friend just yet about your feelings because if he is dating someone else, the he isn't that into you yet...
i say go for the guy you kind of liek until your best freidn breaks up with his girl. then break up with the guy you kind of like and then start building a super strong relationship with your best friend. then get a friend to tell him how you feel, but make it seem like she souldn't have told him. if he makes a move then he likes you, but if he doesn't then dont worry, you still have your freindship.
Also if you are not sure if you lie your friend then think about making out with him. do you liek the idea of you two together? well, then you like him.
hope i could help! i'm acctually doing the same thing, so tell me if it turns out good if you do do that!
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That's really nice to hear advice from someone who's going thru the same thing. Thanks a lot.
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Gender: Female Age: 14 Member Since: June 7, 2005 Answers: 54 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 3307
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