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OK.. so i know.. online romances are dangerous.. but this is different. Hes my friends cousins friend! Ive never met him personally but I talk to him online and hes sooo sweet. Hes always telling me how nice i am and that he wished i lived in his town. We joke around and when i talk to him im so happy. we're both 14, and i dont know what to think. we were talking and he said i wish i could see u right now so said me too.. lets run away.. (this whole running away thing was just a fantasy for BOTH of us.. we're not really gunna do it).. and we said we were going to vegas together. and we both plan to go to collage in FL, and if we go to the ones we both want, we'll be kinda close.. miami and tampa. and i really really want that. but idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel?.. if i should .. how do i do it?.. im usually very outgoing.. but with this im kinda shy. and wow.. so please just give me your honest opinion on the whole situation. I rate high for advice I like, and i dont rate at all if i dont like it.. i dont like lowering peoples ratings for one question. Thanks in advance!
Phew, for a second I thought this was one of those stupid and dangerous online romance questions. I'm glad you agree. At least yours isn't concerning one of those guys that live in Alaska and you have no idea about.
Let me just say...be ready for some disappointment. Even if it never comes, still you have to be ready for the worst. Don't let yourself get your hopes up.
Sounds like he's a great guy and you two would be great together, but just remember this is still someone you've never met. Someone that could already have a secret girlfriend, or someone else he has his eye on, or someone that's just looking for a little fun online, etc.
Please read this for my opinion on online relationsihps:
http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=339867
Crushes are great, but that's all they are sometimes. Just remember that even relationships where people have known each other for years and have known each other in person don't always work out, let alone a relationship with a guy you meet online.
Anyway, if you're still going to go for it, you should ask your friend's cousin to set up a meeting date face to face sometime.
Stay safe, don't get your hopes up, and good luck!
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(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot.. we might be meeting soon!... He might come with his dad on a business trip to a place about an hour and a half away from me! hes soo sweet!
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