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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me. (link)
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I'm sorry you are feeling so anxious about sexual intercourse. Not all females feel pain at all during their first experience, this is something that is all too often over exagerated. Occasionally the hymen may be thicker that it ought to be in which case all that you would feel would be a slight sharp twinge for a moment, nothing more.
As for bleeding, expect to see an odd spot or two, again, this has been over exagerated.
Passing urine following sex should NOT cause pain.
During sexual pleasure your vulva becomes swollen and if you feel the need to pee immediately following sex, you may find it slighter harder to begin the flow and no more than that.
So, please try to put your mind at ease and look forward to your wedding day.
I wish you both all the luck in the world.
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Thank you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much!
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