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Old enough to know, young enough to understand. I got the hat and the T-shirt, wrote the book, read lots of books. Saw lots of films.

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my friends are always getting the guys. ill plainly say that. i am pretty, or at least everyone thinks i am, and i personally think i have a great personality. i flirt, i try to act interested but the guys always seem to go for my freinds, even if it seems they are flirting with me, or like me. i mean, i have so much more to offer than my freinds. im going to a an art school for painting, i play the guitar, the piano and the drums, i am the life of the party, i paint, i write, i compose. but it seems that my freinds, who personaly i think are...i hate to use the word...posers(even though we arnt goth or anything, they just think they know art when they, exuse my french, dont know shit). but sometimes i wonder, am i just to mature, should i wait to find a guy, or for someone to find me? i just feel that people will give me a second look, but not want to waste their time or energy on a third. im really sorry if this question had no point. and im sorry for wasting you tome reading it. but can anyone help me get out of this shadow?

A couple of things spring to mind on reading your question.... Either you are
A) A really good looking girl who because of that fact, frightens the guys off, because they are thinking that you wouldn't want to be seen with them because they think you are too good for them... Or..
B) You have such a high opinion of yourself, to the point that you are a boring big headed prick. In which case it is hardly surprising that they do not see the real you. So which one is it? I suggest that you lighten up a lot, stop going on about how great you are. Stop giving lectures about Art and all the other crap you keep raving on about. No I do not think you are mature. I think that YOU think you are mature. Just try to be natural. Remember everything comes to those that wait...

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(Rating: 2) actually, im very self concious, and i dont think highly of myself openly, but thanks anyway
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