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im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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I am a seventeen year old female and I am in love. What is the problem with this, you may ask? I shall tell you. The man I love is 7.5 years my senior (he's 25) and he lives in another continent. He says that he loves me as well, but I'm not sure how to make this relationship work. Can a 17 year old and a 25 year old really make it? Especially with him being so far away... He says he may move here in December, however, but then what? My parents would never approve and I crave their approval like I crave oxygen. I am at a loss. I don't really know what I'm asking, quite frankly, and I won't be surprised if no one replies. I suppose I'm just looking for opinions. Thanks. (link)
im not gunna give you the answer the other smart a$$'s gave. it moght not be what you wanna here, but it's true.
long distance is obviously harder. almost all of us have had them, and we know that you have to put extra effort into it. the thing about your parent's is really understandable.
exaple- i'm a 16 year old guy, and my girl friend doesn't live far away, but her dad won't let us see each other, cuz i snuck her out of the house. your probably thinking, "what does that have to do with my question?".
it doesnt matter if the person lives over sea's, or 2 block's away. parents are parents. they're just concerned about tour well being. but if your in love, they have to accept that, and the day your 18, they'll have to live with it. it might be hard, but you have to tell them how you really feel about this guy, and that you seek their aproval, and they need to give you a chance with it. that's really all i can say. i hope my advice helped, at least a little bit.


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