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Q: well its summerr but everyone of my friends is ignoring me. ill be like ill miss u and they are like bye. they dont even say they miss me. and when i say hi to them they pretend like im not there. what should i do cause they were always so nice to me..now they ignore me all the timee
If they ignore you then let them be because you can do better then what they are doing now. You dont need them to put you down. Be yourself and you'll meet more people and have better friends. If you really want to be their friend then you should talk to them about it. They should know how they are making you feel. I used to think the same thing about some of my friends and I learn that I can either deal with it or move on. In the beginning I tried dealing with it and I still wasn't very happy, but now I'm starting to move on. I dont want to be stuck with the same people forever. Deep down you should know that even thought they treated you like that you should always give people a second chance and forgive them because everyone needs friends. They make need you back and you decide if you want to go back. Sometimes you should show them how they treat you so they get a taste of their own medicine. Thats what my family always told me. Its the summer you need to get out and meet new people and forget about your friends for now. Dont let them take your summer away.Hope this helps!

-Manda

thanks that helped!!

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ItzMzManda
Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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