im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer
please tell me what to do
P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing
I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time (link)
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take it from a guy's point of view (which would be me) If the guy hasent mentioned it to you, there's somethin going on. alot of the time, a 13 year y/o guy isnt focused on sex. it's a guy thing. oddly enough, 14 is the age where thats what a guy wants. Or he has thought about it, and he's not ready. normally, if a guy dosent mention it, there's 4 possible things that could be going on-
1.he's not ready for it.
2.he's scared of getting you preganate
3.he respects you and himself and thinks that it should be really special
4. he has strong christian morals going on.
#3 and 4 is the most popular in teenage guys, but like i said, when he wants it, he'll ask about it.
but as your question states, you obviously want 2 talk 2 him about it, so, just start by asking if he loves you, and if he thinks your relationship is going anywhere. dont just say, "do you want to have sex?" that might freak him out. just ask him " how would you feel/react if i said i wanted to MAKE LOVE to you?" then go from there....
as for the where you sohuld have it... there r many places...i donno...since your 13... see if you have a 16+ y/o friend that has a car. personally, 1 of my more daring (yet stupid) places was in a movie theatre. but only if it's not crowded, and no1 is within 5 rows of you...you cant take your cloths off ither. but maybe in the back of a friends car (if they dont mind), or sneak out at night (this requires money and your driver friend) and get your friend 2 get a hotel room. minors can't get the hotel themselves, so give them the money, and get them to book it for you.
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