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im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!

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i cant answer the thing about the period (being a guy and all) but just because he pulled it out right before he cummed, doesnt mean you NOT going to get preganate. im not saying that you are, but it's possible. because most cuzs, when they get..well..."get it up", or have a boner, they have alittle bit of sperm on the end of it. i dont mean to scare you, but that little bit could get you pregante. then alot of guys get cought up, an they might not notice it, but they might have 2 or 3 little ejaculations and not notice it. so, i donno what the point of me saying that was, ig uess i just fely like i should.


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thanks, I took 2 tests already and they were both negative..plus my boyfriend just got 2 more. thanks though!




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