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i just found out my bf is gay! i don't have anything against gays but i mean... it's my BOYFRIEND! what should i tell him and how should i react. this is really hard for me!
please help!
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First of all are you SURE he's gay? And by that, have you actually heard it from HIM? If the answer is no, please TALK to him and find out the FACTS before you jump to conclusions.
If you are sure, then read on. Don't be hurt. I know...that's probably impossible to do!
In the past I had this whole soap opera about this guy who liked me (and was GOING to ask me out) that was confused and in the end he turned gay. Ugh. It left me confused and hurt. But guess what? It's been two years and I have no feelings for him and I have the best boyfriend now!
Just tell him you're not willing to date him anymore if he's gay (obviously because he only likes guys right? lol). Just tell him how you feel. If I were you I'd tell him how disappointed you are since he didn't tell you anything and you had to find out on your own (Well, at least that's what I'm assuming; unless he did tell you).
Dating is all about gaining new experiences, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. I'm pretty sure you've done just that. If things don't work out you move on and live life. Just hang in there and the perfect guy will come (that's not gay! lol)!
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(Rating: 5) Oh my gosh! I LOVE your advice! You give great advice! I wish I could rate higher! Yours was the best one I have had so FAR!
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