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MY ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he said he wanted to be alone and needed to "grow up" some. I understand but he wants to be friends, he left me with this and said that he wasnt in any attempt to get my hopes up that he meant this " you are my first love and i want you to be my last" How would you interpret it?
Well there are actually two ways to interpret it...
1) He did say he needed time to grow up. He probably wants that time and stay friends with you, until he thinks you two are ready for a relationship again. What he said could mean he wants you to be the first and last love of his life.
2) This is a darker side to it. It could mean he doesn't want to fall in love again. It could mean you were the first and last love of his life, and he isn't willing to ever fall in love with ANYONE, including you, again.
So there are two sides to it. #1 sounds more reasonable. However, you have to think of the other possibilities, just in case.
I hope things with your ex work out.
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