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Location: Ireland
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Age: 15
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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?
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If you don't mind me saying your self-esteem seems like its in dire need of repair! When going to a new school, make sure you look and feel as confident as possible because if you make yourself seem nervous and shy bullys will tend to pick up on this and you definitely don't want that. If you have problems with self-esteem just tell yourself: "im not going to let these idiots make me feel like crap, i am what i am and if they can't deal with that..tough" and if anyone trys to put you down, just remember: People put other people down because they're insecure about themselves. Also, try joining clubs or groups to try meet new people and make friends. I really hope this helped and Good Luck in going to your new school, i wish you all the best.
Mayhem
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