Hi. Alright so there is this guy and i like him so much and he liked me until... well... i gave my really good friend his screen name and she flirted with him and acted all fake when she talked to him and now he likes her. They havn't even met! I am so mad but i dont wanna talk to her about it because she'll be like "what r u talking about?", and act like im crazy. She doesn't even know I like him. I don't wanna ruin our friendship but at the same time im so mad... and confused... im afraid if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot. Alright this probably sounds like another silly teen love problem... but it really hurts. And I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it. Please help.

Thanks

Well first of all, she doesn't even know you like him! That's the big problem there. Maybe if she had known you liked him before you gave her his screen name, she probably wouldn't have tried to flirt with him. So the solution would be to tell her you've liked the guy before you gave her his screen name, and it's really been hurting you that after you gave her his screen name she's been flirting with him.

If she doesn't even seem to care, then you don't need her. Because good friends CARE about your feelings. You can't fix a problem if you don't realize what the problem is. If she can't realize the problem, it can't be fixed.

But either way, don't worry about that guy. It's just a crush. I know, crushes at the time feel like something big, but afterwards you'll realize how stupid you were for getting hurt over nothing :P Plenty of fish in the sea! But who would want to date a fish..? Oh you know what I meant :P