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Okay so I'm going out with this guy. He cheated on me with my "friend" at a party, and I found out. The thing is, I don`t think he would have told me if I hadn`t found out. I still love him so much, but nothing can ever happen between us because of what he did. He has apoligized and I`ve just been really mean to him. What the hell do I do???????
PLEASE HELP.

Wow, I know exactly what your talking about. It happened to me a year ago. I still really liked my boyfriend, but I realized, even though he appologized, I'd hate to feel the same way I did when I found out he cheated on me.
Guys can act appoligetic for two reasons; They really DO love you; They just want you for their 'reasons.' If you really think this guy loves you, you can consider giving him another chance, but cheating isn't a good way of showing your girlfriend your love for her.
If he's never done anything like this before, and he's very into you and you know this for a fact, give him another chance. But never give a guy a third chance.
But if he HAS done something like this, even flirted with a girl a lot, I'd advise you to just let him go. Giving him another chance could be like giving him another oppertunity to cheat.
Sorry if I didn't help much, but I remember it was hard for me, and I hate to see people in the same crappy positions as me.

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