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Hey! The name's Claire.. I'm a fun-lovin type of girl who luvs giving advice. I can talk about pretty much anything, so just ask!
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Ok, I love my friends very much don't get me wrong. I have so much fun with them. But tonight I just broke down and started crying because I was so pissed and upset. I feel like I'm always the one being laughed at. We all make fun of eachother, and we laugh together, but I feel like I'm hardly ever taken seriously. One of my friends kept saying stuff, saying I live in the ghetto when I don't. And he knows it, he just wants something to laugh at. I didn't care, and it was funny, but it kept building up. Does this happen with anyone else? What do you do? I'd really like to talk to anyone in the same situation. Thank you so much. (link)
Hey! I'm been in the exact same situation as you lately. My friends recently have just been cracking jokes about me being Asian all the time and just never.. I don't know how to explain it, but I'm sure you know. I haven't really done anything about it yet, but I'm planning on talking to just one girl first -- one of my closest friends in the group. I'm just gonna confront her online, [because it might be harder to explain in person] that it really bothers me when she continuously does that because to me, it was maybe funny the first few times, but now it's gotten a little... tired. Then when you're around her, maybe when your other friends crack jokes about you or certain other things, your friend will stick up for you and just be like, "hey guys, that's not really funny". Eventually it will get down to a lower level and then they'll finally stop. I hope this helps! Good luck with your friends


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