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I like this guy, Jared. He is my friend, but i dont know how i can get him to like me that way. Im a very out going person and well usually, thats how i get my guys. But he is different. I dunno its just all so frustrating. PLease help!!
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You can't really get any guy to "like" you all of a sudden. If you take a random person (say, the guy who sits closest to you in one of your classes, or the guy who you work with) you couldn't really be "made" to like him, right? Same thing here. To get noticed (and I mean in a classy way, not a slutly need attention kinda way), you have to be confident in yourself and show him that you can have fun together. Maybe start out with a casual hang out situation (if you aren't already) and see if that is comfortable. If this guy is differnt it may be becuase he wants more than fun/spontaneous/outgoing. He probably just wants somone he can talk to (dependable/can keep a secret/ open). Next time you guys are together try to talk. Not just chat about stuff - talk. See what he thinks. At some point, if you really want this, just bring it up. If you are straightforward (guys usally dont do the hint thing very well) then he won't relaly be scared by it. Its just talking. Talk about the possiblility of you guys dating/being more than just friends. Ask him what he thinks (because I'm sure he has; almost every guy who has a girl - who - is - a - friend has at least _thought_ about it). The worst he can say is no. As in no, but he thinks that you make a great friend. Just be calm, rational, and straightforward (I think I say that a lot, but only becuase it is essential).
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