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alrite so im pretty much awesome i guess i duno wat can i say i play softball and go to FMHS yea! and im gona be a sophmore this year and im 14 and summer pretty much sucks but yea i like listening to music and hanging out with friends because my friends are frieken awesome! but yea i can give good advice because i like to do it and yea as long as its not one of those fucking annoying preppy people ?'s like "like omg wat should i wear tonight" cus u dont need advice to figure that out and im pretty smart youll figure that outif you take the time to know me and i like to read lol

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i am whatyousay32... yeh u asked who i was... but i really like ur website and i have a question.... i am a cutter, i mean was but i am now.. i started to do it again. i have alot of stress on me because i am a triplet and the only girl. my brothers get perfect grades, and i don't, i have a few b's. But they always say well caitlin yoo cna do better look at your brothers. i got soo sad and went into depression mode, i have been slittin my wrist untill i am afraid i can't loose anymore blood, but i always do it when i have my arm over a sink or bathtub, so that i can wash the blood down the drain. I cut because i can't let my parents see i am giving in, giving in to the pressure, i told my counciler but all he said was, oh stop cuttin then sent me out no kidding!!! i am writing poetry and it helps a little,and i am afraid to call a hotline because it will show up on my phone bill, or send me to a like school for troubled teens.. i need help.. poetry and this website help, makin others happy helps, but it is not enough, i formed 3 new cuts just like 4 mins ago and i need your help fast!!!

sorry i didnt answer sooner...you say your cutting because you cant compete with your parents expectations and your brothers...well i mean you have b's thats still good not like your failing if you really want to get as good of grades as them and meet your parents expecations then put in the extra effort and study a little more or read some books or watever you have to do. i think you want to quit cutting?? id hope so that definitly doesnt sound very fun hmm the whole giving into pressure thing just dont even worry about it if you really want to prove that u can do better you will but like i said youll have to work at it nothing worth having comes easy and you shouldnt try to make others happy you have to make yourself happy before anybody else you are the 1st priority in your life right now if you have a problem dont worry about any1 elses. I think you should make a list or something and write down all the positive thins about your life and reasons you have to make you not cut every day get up and say positive things about yourself like "i like myself" "im gonna have a good day today" because you are in control of your life it starts with the mind people always blame stuff on other people or other situations that happen just over come everything be positive abour yourself, like yourself, respect yourself, better yourself every day make a new goal for yourself today it might be not cutting i dont know.. the only thing i can think of to get u stop cutting at the moment bc to me it seems like your cutting because you dont like yourself trust me its much better to be positive and be happy but it has to happen by you make yourself better before you make anybody else happier..hope i helped write me back

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(Rating: 5) thank yoo so much, i am soo sorry i didn't rite back sooner.. i have been trying and i am proud to say, although i have not stopped totally i am wrightin poery and i have reduced my cuttin to only one amall inch long slit a day, a BIG improvment for me.. thank you soo much!!!n i will b sure to let yoo know about my steps to improvement along the way!! and yes my goal is to stop.. and i am also proud to say idid better then one of my brothers of every exam!!! well thank yoo.. it helped alot yoo really made a diffrence in my life, yes that little parahgraph is a help.. ny the way i have my own advice collum and it helps other people feel good i hope so it makes me feel good, i have also been keppin buisy ans i have now voleenteered over 100 hours at the zoo and a no kill shelter thanks alot!!
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