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ok, my freind, J-lo, (that's her real name) Always wants me to do things with her. What I mean is, this girl name Clair, I'm her friend she my freind. J-lo be rolling her little eyes at Clair, and I look at J-lo like she stupid, so I'm like, its ok that you not her friend but you need to stop. She was like, "I can't belive u her friend." So, I don't say nothin'. And yada yada yada, then Clair asks me can she sit at lunch with me, so, J-lo all like " no no say no." But I say yeah. Then she be gettin' little attitudes. Every time She not someones freind who she's not, she think that we both always got to go with what she say and tell me not to be that persons friend. its like we both have to have the same friends and have the same enimeies. And I'm mad about that. And whenever I get mad, and need to tell something to someone cause they making me upset, I go alittle too far with the voice tone. I would really snap someone off to tears, how am I going to tell her. Or should I tell her off about how I feel? I'm almost close to not being her friend.
Okay hun I've been in this situation MANY times before, and how it turned out for me is that the "j-lo" in your story needs to back off! She needs to let you have your space your freedom to be anyones friend not just hers! And if she still don't get it then she ain't a good friend at all. So I would really just leav her behind!
(Rating: 5) u cold. But thank you alot.