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Expression is what I live for. I pass the time on the computer, but I enjoy doing music-related things, such as going to concerts and hiding myself under thousands of downloads. Sometimes I write reviews for Ambitious-Outsiders and make T-Shirts and draw little pictures of things. Well, this is my column, I like talking so ask me something. It will give me something to do, and who knows, maybe I will help.
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Age: 14
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Ok, i am in 8th grade and i am a 13 year opld female (just so oyu know the setting) well anyways my problem is that i have never ever ever in my life had a boyfriend. i know you might be sayi wow big deal, but it is. like almost everyone i know has had/haves 1. i feel weid when people go, oh who is you b/f, or who have you gone out with. idk whatto do. i hate feeling this way, is it wrong that i have never had a b/f, nad what can i do to make me feel better bout my self (qith out actually getting a b/f, cuz dont see that happeneing in the near future.


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Well, I just recently attained my first boyfriend, and I know exactly how you feel. The answer is, just get out and meet people. Go to local bands' shows or to hangout spots. Get a MySpace or LiveJournal and meet your friends' friends that way. Trust me, you'll meet a lot of guys that way and you're bound to find one that you get along with really well. It happened to me and I'm really happy.

About the confidence part, I have the same thing. I thought getting a boyfriend would help me feel complete and shit, but it didn't. I love him very much and all but the truth of the matter is that it's something inside of you that only you can change. When I figure it out for myself I'll let you know how to do it..:/


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