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Member Since: May 3, 2005
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Last Update: May 12, 2005
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hi my mom has cancer, and i have told my friends but only reluctantly about it and this was a while ago. I only didnt want to tell them because i didnt want for them to feel sorry for me. i dont need that. I was so sad when she first told my family. I havent cried since excpet when she accidently made me read an article about cancer and it was all about bad stories and unhappy endings, not what i needed to hear. my parents havent ever tried to talk to me about it but i am not the kind of person to talk openly. I try to keep it off my mind and think about what i can do, and try to be helpful. what i can basically. but at a sleepover my friends talked to me about this and they sort of emplied that i wasnt as concerned and sad as i should be. do you think I am handling this well? what do you think i should do? please dont give me something like, just talk to your friends, thanks that'd be great! (link)
i think this is something that an older person sould be handling. You shouldn't have to worry about things like this you should have fun and worry about other things but take care of her once and a while but you should have an adult take care of her.


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i wish i could but my dad is and i still have to care of her when he is gone plus i get all of my mom's anh some of my dad's work. and my brother never does anything so i already have his chores too.




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