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Q: I feel emontionally unable to control my self at times . Im only 15 and I have to go throught menopause. I very stressed and I just wanna give up. My bf wants me to change a part of myself for him (stop datting girls) but i dont even have enough feeling for that him and im a female. Im really need to stop doing overdose and im going to cut myself. What shoud i do?
Dont ever change for someone!! If they dont like you for who you are then forget them hun. There sure in the hell aint nothing wrong with being BI. And about the emontionally thing its really hard. Ive been there so many times in my life. For that i think you need to talk to someone. To me it took alot to ask for help from my mom and when i did she never talked about it again. People dont under stand things like we do. They just dont realize how hard it is to ask for help and it really hurt to ask and not be helped and to deal with stressed things on your own. So if you can ask for help. Most of all dont cut yourself!! Just dont people do it and they like show it off im like omg what the hell. But i under stand you have reasons but well you no what i mean when i say ive been there before. I scared friends so bad and i scare myself just thinking about it now. Some times i think about doing it but....i talk myself out of it. And im sure your bf dont want to see that on your arm!! And i hope your bf learns that liking girls is just apart of you hes gonna have to deal with and take you for who you are. Does your bf no about you wanting to cut yourself? Cause if he cares for you talk to him about it if you dont want to ask your family for help. Ive found out if you have a great bf they'll help you through stressed times really good. They'll back you up and be there to pick you up when you need the help most of all they'll just care and listen to you like no one does in your life. I hoped i helped cause i think i did alittle cause ive been there but if i left any feelings or questions un answered write back!!and write back and let me now how things are!!hoped i helped and stay strong..

Love,
AssHlyYYy

he doesnt know...thanks ur so wonderful i could hug u

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AshleyZ416
^At the Glo Show
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Lisa
Sam
Ashley(me)

Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair



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