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Well, I'm a serious sometimes funny type of person and usually my problem evolves in my love life :) ain't as lucky as you are.lol. I'm 16 and somewhat emotional. They say one of my assets is being sensitive to the feelings of others and one of my bad habits is playing with my hands while looking for words.
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A week months back I was informed my friend gave someone else a hand-job. She's 14. I know, to some people this is normal, but we live in a nice small town where nothing like that ever really happens. Here it's different. I asked her if there was anymore and she 'swore on her music' I told her to never let him back in her house again because she claims he forced her into it. (She's in love with music, anything that has to deal with music). SO, naturally I believed her. Yesterday I found out new information. She had given a hand-job twice, a blow-job one, made out alot and let him feel her up. She never told me. She claims that she's scared, I would be too. I'm so mad about her not telling me. I'm her 'best friend'? Why don't I feel like it? (link)
You don't feel like you're her bestfriend because she doesn't consider you as such. She doesn't want you to know she's doing those things for the reason that maybe you'll get angry. These are the things we can conclude if your sources are reliable. What if the information is wrong? If it is right then confront her. See if she is lying or not when you ask her. You'll notice by the way she acts. After that, tell her the consequences that might happen and convince her not to do it anymore. If she does not listen. Just let it go. You've done your part as her bestfriend.


Rating: 5
Thanks- SHe admited to doing that stuff, but she lied multiple times first.




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