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Location: CT
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Age: 16
Member Since: April 23, 2005
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ok. so i go to lake bluff central school and i really like this boy. he knows from AIM but i can't seem to find out if he likes me or not. i mean in gym he always looks at me but when i turn he always looks away. we talk a lot on AIM about a ton of stuff like school, sports...ect. I just can't seem to talk to him on a regular basis. I mean the only thing i can say to him when he's around his friends is hi. the other day on a school trip my best friend and i had to sit with him because there were no more seeats on the bus. My bf made me sit next to him. we talked a lot on the bus ride home and that was really the first time i had ever really talked to him. Now i always say hi to him. but i still can't find out who he likes. i mean everyone asks him but he never tells. I guess my question is how can i start talking to him more when he's around his friends and do you have any idea how to find out who he likes without torturing him?

from please help me
P.S.can you teach me some ways of flirting without tallking to him? I rate high for good advice!

First check out these tips first to see if he's into you:
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

To flirt back:
Raise you eyebrows and then lower them, then smile at him it usually indicates interest in him.
In a crowd only speak to him and focus all of your undivided attention to him.
Play with your jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
Twirl your hair around your fingers while you are looking at him.
While talking to him, rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out your other hand, palm up.
Laugh in unison with him.
Puts your fingernail between your teeth.
Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking your lips or touching of your front teeth.
Wink at him while talking to him or wink at him from a distance.
Rub your chin or touch your cheek. This indicates that your thinking about him and her relating in some way...
Gaze into his eyes with deep interest.

SRY if its so long hope this helps!!

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(Rating: 5) thanks it kinda did hellp i'm talking to him more


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