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Ok everyone lets keep this simple. My name is Chris, I am an 18 year old guy. I am also a senior in HS. I am a good listener and even better at giving advice because I have had to deal with a lot of adversity. Anyway, so here is my advice column...

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Ok, problem here dudes.

At my school, Im a freshie, 14/m. I have good looks, but I never thought I was something to die over. Every day I have these indirect confessions from people I do or do not know that they like me, but I can't say the feeling is mutual. I'd like to know how to break this to them in a nice way, because some of them are a little over the edge if you know what I mean....

I noticed that someone gave advice that you should flirt with a guy that you do like. You said you are a 14/m and you had "Girl Trouble". I think someone should read your post more carefully next time. Sorry… Anyways! I don't think ignoring them or trying to flirt with someone else is a good idea at all. It’s mean and usually comes out badly. The best thing to do would be to be direct but kind. You could tell them something like this: (you don't need to use this, its just an generic answer).

"Oh... Well I always saw us as good friends. I don't want to mess our friendship up by complicating things."

It’s direct, but its still being kind. Letting someone down is never easy and its never "not painful" for them. Best thing to do is to be direct, but kind and won't hurt them as much.

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(Rating: 5) Appreciated muchly!!! ^_^
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