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This may sound wierd but im friends with this guy i met maybe 3 weeks ago at a teen dance club im 17 hes 19, i bearly know him and i dont know what makes me feel so much like i need to help him but its killing me that i cant come up with my own solution.

This kid was recently kicked out of his house where he lived with his father and step mother, and that may possibly be a good thing. his father was abusive and it wasnt a good living situation. the last few days hes either been sleeping in his car or finding people to stay with. What hes planning on doing in 11 days is moving back to texas (from new york) and back in with his biological mother who hasnt seen him in forever and who hes only been talking to for 2 weeks. All his friends and his life is here though and hes not even sure if texas is going to work out for him.

i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of things he can do. chances he has of staying here. He did graduate highschool etc and is really a nice guy though obviously he has his issues. This is a last resort for me. idk if theres people i can talk to or what i just need someones advice on this

thanks

well hes 19 and doesnt have a job? maybe that would be a sart then he could get his own apartment. maybe him moving to texas wouldnt be such a bad idea. he would atleast have a roof over his head. maybe you could talk to ur parents about letting him stay with you or somthing. and who knows maybe him and his dad will make up and he could move back in with his dad. or if he desdes to go to texas maybe he will like it down there if not he could always move back.
hope i could help

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(Rating: 2) thank you for trying to help but there are just some things about this advice...1st of all his father is abusive. why would he ever move back in. and if he doesnt have any money how would he keep going between ny and texas....like i said i appreciate your try at helping but you seem as jumbled and unsure about this as iam. thanks again though

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