Hi my name is Chelsey and I've been through a lot in my life. I live in Branford Connecticut, and I'm 13 years old. Even though I'm young that doesn't mean that I haven't been through a lot. Everyday is a struggle, and i like to feel that i'm not alone and I wish that someone was there to help me get through the tough times and confort me. Thats why I like to help. Also ever since i was little I was usually the advice giver to my friends and I always gave them good advice so I hope to help more people in the world. When i grow up I hope to be a councelor for teens because teens usually go through the most dramatic things. Also just to let you know I used to cut for you cutters out there and I've done a lot of other things. I know that these days a lot of teens think self harm is normal and theres nothing wring with it but it is TOTALLY wrong and that why I'm here to try to help some of you people stop. I've helped a lot of people in the past. Also I've been through a lot of family roblems since I was little. Including my dad and other family member's making me feel like nothing. I've also been through a lot of unwanted sexual contact. So for you boys and girls out there that have been raped or moulested I'm here for you. As most teens know a lot of depression problems are caused by relationship problems and I've been through more of them than I can count, I know how hard they are and how much you cry and cry you can't bring them back. Or you just don't know what to do when theres a problem. Also my mom she has a disease that makes her not feel good at all, all the time,and there is NO cure for it. So i kind of know how it feels not to have a mom because she's not like normal mom's. So if you need advice i'm happy to give you some to the best ability that I can.
~*Thank you*~
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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????
Please help me?????
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I wouldn't call it an obsession, but i would calm down a little on the parnoia. I don't think you should be as worried as you are about her. Like yea it's great to pray for her and such but not be wondering if she'll be alive when you wake up next to her. But i think you guys are REALLY REALLY REALLY tight which is awesome i wish i had a friendnship like that. Well i hope i answered your question!
luv,
~cHeLlY*~
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