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Q: Okay, so I played the lead character opposite a guy friend of mine in our school's spring play. The only problem was, we were good friends before, but we had to actually kiss onstage, no stage kissing, no angling it - it was real.
The first time he kissed me, it was during an excercise we were doing for our drama teacher to "develop our characters' relationship," and we both got really into it.
The day after that, he wouldn't look at me, and ever since then our friendship has been...awkward? I mean like, we used to talk about everything, now every conversation we have seems to be awkward and forced, almost as if we're afraid to talk.
The play's over now, and our friendship is sort of going back to normal, but there's still a little...awkwardness to it. I never got a crush on him, but my character definitely liked his character, and his definitely liked mine. But we never liked each other as who we really are...if that makes any sense...Why do you think all the awkwardness happened? I'm just curious to see what you all think.
Well a great kiss can add a spin to anything. AS a personal experience I was at a concert and i have kissed very few people but this random girl in the crowd started making out with me, and yet i'll never forget that moment.

When two people kiss, wether you want it or not emotions start to build inside for the other. Not that you like them but it usually always gives a wierd twist to things.

I would say talk to him about becuase if he has never had a crush on you and still doesn't (and you know this for sure) and you have never srushed him, then talking about it really should make the awkwardness to stop, expecailly if you can turn it into something that you can both laugh at like friends would.

=)

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