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Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?

Signed, Troubled Child

It is always hard to get over someone. Time helps but it sucks because it is a very slow healer. It will get easier once you really do move on with your life. Don't go out looking for a bf just to move on, be happy being independent for a while. Once a guy worthy of your attention comes along, then yes, you will move on naturally and it will be much easier to put the ex into perspective. Friendship is easier once you have both moved forward. In the meantime, there is no magic formula to help you forget him. Just keep yourself occupied with things that don't involve him and try and make the most out of every day and every moment. Enjoy life as you are as much as possible.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks chick...that like um helped like a lot. =D!
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