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Greetings. I'm 27 years old, currently live in New York, and... Put simply, am bored right out of my wits. But, people tell me I give good advice, so here I am.

Feel free to ask me anything, but I'm probably best on relationships and mostly non-vital decisions. Still, I'll do my best (I try not to speak out on issues I'm totally unqualified on anyway).
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Member Since: March 22, 2005
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I was a cutter for about eh, a few months. Then all hell broke loose I was sent away, skip the drama. I've been clean for almost a year..but now more sucky drama is stirring about in my world. I've been thinking about selfharm, but I've still been clean.

Now that you ahve the background...

What can I do with all of my..'emotions'..(did that ever sound cheesy) I already am a poet and a novelest. I pound out on Bass, too...

Danke

-Mistress Maddy (link)
Cutting. Such a terrible thing. I've dealt with cutters in the past, and it isn't easy- for the cutter, or for their friends and family.

Skipping the drama, as you said, if you're serious about feeling the need to harm yourself bodily, it might be best to seek help from a trained professional. I know that might bring images of being sent away again to your mind, but I'd like to think that if you aren't cutting yourself, that you'd be fine- Generally speaking, you can only be hospitalized if you can be proven to be a threat to yourself or to others. Past history aside, you'd be saving yourself a lot of trouble if you see a psychologist. (I sometimes get the terms screwed up- I mean the one that can reccomend treatment, but can't actually treat you. This would work in your favor as well, as such a person cannot send you away, but probably can help, with or without medication and other treatments.)

I know you're probably scared, confused, and more than a little worried, but I believe that seeking help is your best bet.

Good luck to you.


Rating: 3
I already see a shrink..it's just as swell as a shrink can get..




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