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This guy seemed to like me for a while and so i made a move by subtlely flirting with him. thing is-i ended up falling head over heals for him. everytime i'd see him...my friends would make a really big deal-almost everyone knew i liked him...but after that he started to stop smiling the way he did...and now we don't talk or wave or smile...what happened?

I'm only guessing here but the problem may be that all the friends knew before he did. Where he was friendly before, suddenly he is hearing from all sorts of sources that you have fallen for him. If all I had done was a little flirting and I heard that, I would be thinking "hell, she doesn't even know me" and perhaps conclude you were a pyscho. I'm not trying to insult you, just warning you. Flirting is fine and if people notice a few things well that is OK to. But as a general rule, try and let the guy you are interested in be the one that knows before everyone else.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. that advice helps
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