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hi i just recently discovered some suspicious actions coming from my boyfriend. on myspace in his inbox i discovered a lot of letters that he wrote to girls saying stuff like, "wow, you're beautiful". or "i could spend all night gazing in your eyes."

i started crying cuz in a way i think he's cheating on me in a sense by flirting with other girls. i confronted him about it, and he denies all of it saying that he was just bored and on myspace a lot of people ask to rate their picture. i still didn't believe him cuz his answer was unreasonable, and he kept telling me things like he specified that he was in a relationship (which is true) and he was just bored and i shouldn't take it personally. even some of the girls he commented on had boyfriends so he said i was overreacting. he also said that if he were to be cheating on me, why is he not going out to act upon his actions?

right now i really don't know whether to believe him or not.

i never talk to guys let alone look at them because i keep my boyfriend's feelings into consideration. what i told him was that if he was allowed to talk to girls (he talks to guys also, he's outgoing like that), then i should be allowed the same priveliges without having to feel guilty about it. do you think i made the right decision on telling him that?

i really don't know what to think. there's more to this story and i apologize if i made him seem like the evil antagonist here, but we've been together a log time and he's never cheated on me...i want to believe him, i really do. but why would he call other girls beautiful? why the word "beautiful" of all words?

any help is appreciated...

hey i had the same problem with my ex. turns out he was cheating on me! not to say yours is or anything. we were together for 6 months and inside i always had a feeling like he was cheating on me. go with your gut reaction. and if you trust your bf alot then just tell him "how would you like it if i talked to guys and told them that stuff" and see what he says. tell him you dont mind if he has GURL friends...but your his girlfriend. and he should think you, and only you are beautiful. just tell him its not cool and if hes cheating on you, u just want to know right now or something. do what you feel inside. if u feel hes cheating on you, you feel that way for a reason.

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