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Forget rationality.Inanity is the only way to go.
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
I'm sure he still likes you. But at 14, life moves pretty fast. The brutal truth is that you should not waste your time even thinking about him while he has another girlfriend. I don't say this because of some moral objection or anything, but simply that if he can play one off against the other he will. Guys are like that. Instead of concering yourself whether or not he likes you, just enjoy life and if and when another guy comes long, give the new guy a chance. If this guy does like you and wants you in his life as a gf, he has to do something about it. The next move is not yours.
Hope this helped.
P.S. If he does break with his current gf and pursues you later, then decide at that time what you want. You might have found a great bf you wouldn't trade for anything in that time. Maybe you are available and interested again. Never make a decision until you have to because 1. It may never happen and 2. you never know what is going on in your life at the time until it does happen.
(Rating: 5) WOW!! i never thought of it like that .. ok so ill try that out. ill give other guys chances and not waste my time on him when he has a girlfriend. but what if when he breaks up with his girlfriend he says he likes me? should igo back to him? that kinda seems like i would be his 2nd choice tho? right?