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Q: All you girls out there...
I am kind of shy, but am trying to be more outgoing, which I am finding easier and easier. Usually when I like a guy, they have no clue, but I would like to change that. What are the best ways to flirt? If you could tell me some of your favorite flirting moves I would appreciate it. Any little flirty gesture or something that always works for you?

And for you guys out there, what kind of things do you love when a girl does? What is the best ways for a girl to flirt in you opinion? How do you like a girl letting you know she is interested in you?

Please keep in mind that I am kind of reserved, so please don't tell me to go up and grab his butt or something, thats not really my style. Thank you so much in advance for your advice!
alright grasshopper, I will teach you everything I know... bows first* :p

1- eye contact: always make eye contact with target
2- make the target feel comfortable around you by rolling stuff in your fingers,like a pen, twirling your hair on your finger. That way you look less threatening, you look nervouse even if you're not.
3- whispering: if you wanna get a guy flustered, whisper in his ear, like "I like your jacket" for example.
4- touch his arm or shoulder lightly, like brushing off dust. Heres a great excuse "you got a piece of string on your shoulder" you pretend to get it off then"there" and flash him your best smile.
5- posture: when a guy is talking to you, dont cross your arms , its like saying "GO AWAY!" so you can lean on the wall or something, its like saying "welcome handsome" and smile, dont 4get to smile!
6- Drop it! Say youre carrying a book, a guy you like is around. Drop your book and see what he does. If he helps you then maybe hes interested too, start a conversation. If he doesnt, he doesnt care.
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Thanks a ton! Those are really great tips, I am definately going to start trying what you siggested. :-)

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