im an 18 guy that has grown up with the most profound respect for women that a man could ever have. i see myself as part of a dying breed of men with chivalry. the only people that i have ever hated are those who treat women like crap. for this, most women find me to be very pleasant to be around. this has led to a lack of relationships in my life, because i dont think i could live with breaking a girls heart. so i started going out with my very first girlfriend a month and a half before i turned 18, and had my first kiss a month before. im still with her and i love her more than anything in the world.
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ok..
my boyfriend is like failing our grade and he cares but he just doesnt think he can do any better he always tells me he dont know how to study like his mind drifts and he said if he fails then he wants to just move to a differnt school...which would kill me!! because we wouldnt see eachother at all..so can anybody give me advice on what to do and help him pass some subjects (enough to pass)! please help! ill rate high! (link)
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time for some tough love. set up a deal where you study together for at least an hour (or set your own time) before you do anything (making out, cuddling, whatever you normally do). then study with him. its ok, to sit close to him, let him put his hand on your leg, kiss him(just peck kissing) a little bit, as long as he is actually studying. after the hour, if he hasnt been studying enough, be hard on him, keep to your word and leave (or tell him to leave). even if you do want to stay, if you love him, you will do what is best for him. and if you do end up leaving, next time he will believe you and study.
few extra details: make sure you keep enough time to spend with him without studying; just having fun.
dont make the study time too long to bear, i suggest at the max 2 hours at a time.
his actually learning something will put both him and you in a good mood, you will probibly enjoy the time you spend afterwards more than you normally would.
good luck
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