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Q: My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???
Tell her you're not copying her, what makes her think you're copying her? Im starting to get pissed here, but I'll control my temper...
SHE IS NO PARIS HILTON! Why the hell would you copy her for? Just ask her why she thinks youre copying her. I understand that she wants her own style and doesnt like it when people copy her, but shes really passing the line. When she accuses you again, stop talking to her, dont go sucking up to her because you wanna be a good friend. You gotta have an attitude! Be strong! No more Miss nice gurlie! Its a doggy dog world out there, not everyone is as nice as you are.

Thank you so much! You really helped me out with my problem! Thankx! :-)

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