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I think the way I come off to people is just mean and that I don't like anyone. Today I heard some kid say (about me) "Yeah, she hates everyone" and that is not true. I tend to tell people to shut up and I guess I'm not the nicest person... so how do I begin to change? I don't want to seem a rude, hateful person anymore! (link)
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Okay everyone already told you "don't be mean, think before you say 'shutup'" etc so I'm gonna give you some more tips. For one, smile. It makes you seem more friendly and approachable. Second, don't cross your arms when you talk to people. It makes you seem like you don't want to open up to them. Put your hands in your pockets, or just do something else with them. Having your arms uncrossed makes you seem more approachable also. Third, make eye contact, and listen when others are speaking. Every once in a while, nod, or say "uh huh" or "yea" so the person knows you are paying attention and care about what they have to say. Fourth, don't wear dark colors. Wearing bright colors makes you seem more cheery and friendly. If you need any more help, leave one in my inbox. Hope I helped!! And remember to SMILE!!! :-D
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