hey..im jus ur average 17 year old.
ive been through my share of ups and downs,havnet experienced it all yet, but i'll do my best to awnser any question you have
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Latley everything has been so messed up. About 2 and a half years ago i was diagnossed with Annorexia Nervosa - my boyfriend has recently found out, and same with his family. He told my best friendand she called me in tears. i know he`s only looking out for me but they just wont get off my back about eating and not b/p now. They think its so easy to just become better with a snap of my fingers. My best friend told me shes afriad to talk to me about it and my boyfriend yells at me about it like its suddenly going to "fix" me and change everything. I feel so alone in all of this. Ive tried explaining the details of it, why it`s caused, how its caused, the syptoms and everything but they just cant seem to understand better. how do i deal? (ps i know i need to "get help" and believe me ive tried but every time i try i choke up, run away and start crying) helllp!! (link)
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Hey hun,
i know what your going through, i went through the same thing about a year ago. My freinds were constantly mad at me, or just completly oblivious, my b-f was always worried, and my family eventully forced me to eat, which then made me go bullimic. No-one can force you to do anything in this situation, so don't let them, it will only turn out bad. I know this is a desease thats very very very hard to get over so i cant just say "ur beautiful the way you are"and make you feel better((although im sure you are)).But i can tell you, you have to make this decision for yourself first, you have to want help, or its never going to get anywhere. Be open with your b-f about it, look up information about it online...read all about the outcome((not only for your self))but print it out and give it to your bf and stuff....it will help them understand how serious it is.and that its not easy to get over. But that doesnt give you an excuse, you will eventully end up hurting yourself very badly, if you havnt already.you cant run away from this,be strong...face it, you have a problem!!Goodluck...i know you can get through it...i did.:)
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