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okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend

You are a really good friend for trying to help. She needs to tell an adult or someone what is going on. He is NOT a good boyfriend at all, and she shouldn't be with him. Nobody deserves that..but if he's threatening her too..then she really needs to tell someone. Try and make her realize that, just go somewhere just the 2 of you and talk. Hopefully she'll understand. Hope i helped **x0x0

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