okay I really dont know what to do..
Heres a little(a lot) about me. Im not gona say alot of details because i know a couple people on here
Okay well im between 13-18 and a guy. I'm in honners classes but doing really bad in them. My parents expect me to be just like my crazy smart sister. My teachers just had a conference with my mom, it went really bad. MY parents are really strict, and they're not the understanding type of parents because they didnt grow up around here. Thats why i can't figure out a way of telling my parents I have ADD everytest I took online (about 25) said that i was ADD positive. Some people think I have it all because of their current job positions and family income. But I really hate my life, n o one knows what it is like to be me. I have 3 or 4 really good friends. But i can practically never hang out with them. I can't have a girlfriend.
I listin to my music all the time, and am forced to study because of my grades. I think of suicide all day, and I am constantly depressed. the other day my room was partially messy(bed not made) and my mom gets really mad( i think she is bipolar) And makes me tear apart my whole room and makes me stay up till 3AM on a sunday cleaning and i had school the next day. My life a always a drag, its basically a set schedual. I can't change anything I have to be what my parents want me to be otherwise I will be looked down upon.
I know I jumped from topic to topic im really sorry. please reply..i need peoples help
I know it's hard, but you really have to talk to someone about this. I'm sure that as strict as your parents are, if you tell them everything and be completely honest they have to understand. If you don't want to talk to them, try talking to an adult that you are close to or perhaps one of your teachers. Also you could phone one of the many helplines available or if you want someone just to chat to in general you can e-mail me on csbubbles@aol.com.
I have a friend who has ADD and at first it was bad, but he got help and he's doing so much better. He even managed to get all Credit grades in his Standard Grades. It's hard to accept at first, but you can work your way through it and become much better.
Also, suicide isn't the answer. Things seem bad right at the moment but you have so much more life ahead of you and you could use your experiences to help so many people, think of the difference you could make.
Remember, you are a unique and special person. Although your parents may not accept you for who you are and what your special talents are right now, they love you and they'll see one day what a great person you are.
Please email me and let me know what happens
Claire xx
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thanks a lot. really helped..thanks
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