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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do? (link)
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I think, although the past is over, that you should sit down and talk to your friend about it, and how you felt then and now. Explain to her that you still want to be friends with her, and that you still love her just as much, it's just you wanted to get it out in the open because it upsets you. If she is a real friend, of course she will understand this, and want to talk to you about it, to make sure your okay. However, I think when you decide to do this, it should be when perhaps you two have spent some quality time together, and it is just the two of you with no-one else around. (Also, face to face, not on AIM or MSN or on the phone). Hope it works out okay.
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